The book by Michael Hyatt and Daniel Harkavy Living Forward: A Proven Plan to Stop Drifting and Get the Life You Want will teach you how to design your life plan. The book guides you through creating a life plan template which you can use to live your life.
I have shared before how keeping it simple is key for me to have and enjoy a fulfilled life. The point of simplicity came after reading Covey’s book on how to develop a mission statement. This book asked that we address three questions
i) what do you stand for?
ii) what is your life about?
iii) what actions are you going to take to manifest your purpose and values?.
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i) required you to come up with your values while questions
ii) & iii) asked that you determine your life purpose and goals respectively. The result of my hard and thoughtful work was a personal mission statement which has contributed to my productivity this year. It has also been my rudder on what needs to be on my to do list.
Back to the book about how to design your life plan. You see, we live in a world where so many things are thrown at us every day. You need to take time to create and plan out your life by clearly defining what success means to you. In order to do this, the authors of Living Forward ask that you set aside a day away from your everyday life to concentrate on designing your life plan.
The Three Questions on How To Design Your Life Plan
In order to create your life plan template, you have to begin with the end in mind and answer three questions which are:
1. How do you want to be remembered?
2. What matters the most to you?
3. How can you get from where you are to where you want to be?
The authors, have been more than gracious in providing guidance on how to answer these questions. The website for the book has a section with templates and precedents of life plans. You can access these for FREE at livingforwardbook.com/resources. The precedent by Abbie mirrored what I wanted my life plan to look like so it was of great use to me.
The Life Accounts For Creating A Life Plan
As you design your life plan, keep in mind that it needs to be divided into what the authors called life accounts. They offer suggestions of what life accounts to consider and these are: health, social, career/vocation, hobbies, self-development/intellectual, marital, parental, spiritual and finance.
Remember however that these are not cast in stone and one is free to create their own life accounts. The authors have offered a FREE assessment tool to assist you determine what accounts to focus on. It is available at livingforwardassessment.com.
In my case, after careful thought and taking the assessment, I came up with seven accounts which formed the basis of my plan. These are, God, Myself, My Husband, Our Children, My Extended Family, My Friends/Clients/Subscribers, My Finances and Material Possessions.
Of all my seven accounts, the one that was most difficult to craft was about myself. I divided it into three sections self-care, personal health and personal growth. In personal growth, I focused on career and professional development. It was so emotional, reflecting on the sacrifices I have made and what I want to achieve in future.
Why you need to design your life plan
Although some people may reason that this is an exercise that should not be embarked on. In my personal view and after reading the book, I think it is a good thing to create a life plan template. The world today offers us many options to make. How you will be able to know what to say yes to and what to leave on the table will depend on what you have in your life plan. Your life plan template will act as a road map on the journey of life. Obviously, it is not enough to have the life plan you must be ready to live out what you have planned.
Although it is an emotional exercise, the book prepares you well with examples of real life situations. Even though we have been given precedents to use, it is very crucial that you make your plan personal. The rational being it is YOU who is going to execute it. It is imperative that you prepare mentally and physically for this exercise. This is because you are literally beginning with the end in mind, where you visualize what you want to be said of you when you move on to eternity.
It is also recommended that in order to keep the plan alive, you read it daily. Personally, I will review mine on a weekly basis and then monthly once I am confident I am on the right track. They also advocate for having quarterly and annual reviews where you evaluate your progress vis-a-vis the plan.
One thing I thought they should have done though is ask you to have an accountability partner who will ensure you live according to the plan. I am going ahead and sharing my plan with my sister and will be seeking her input as I do the quarterly reviews.
Overall I think this is an exercise everyone should embark on. I love that the authors give free resources to ensure their work does not stay on paper but actually helps us all. I hope you will check out the resources listed here and that you will make time to design your life plan and then live according to your plan.
Thank you Rosette. My life plan, eeehh that is tight. Let me think and see how best I can at least see what the future will be like.
Hey Patrick you can and should design one. Just check out some of the resources on the website’s I have linked. It really gives one clarity and focuses you.
I’ve read! @23:29pm.
Thanks for the support. I hope you found it useful
I made a life plan many years ago and I have stayed on track for the most part, well, then life happened 🙂 But I am definitely re-assessing my plan. Thank you so much for sharing! Loved this empowering piece my friend! Keep soaring and inspiring!
Hey Sharline thanks for your kind words. All the best in your planning may God guide you.
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